Dear "Tired of these Men"

Dear Miss Dawn,

How does one find a decent Black man on this campus who not only cares about school, but loves his mama and still treats women he's not related/attracted to with respect?

--Tired of these Men


Dear Tired of these Men,

We’re still in college, so it can be difficult to find a man who is relationship-oriented at this age, let alone a man with all of the qualifications you’ve listed. But baby, the short answer is to look elsewhere or to lower your standards. Not all of your values line up with the hookup culture that we seem to have at college, and there isn’t anything wrong with that. It just means that if you do find a man like that, you should value him even more.

--Miss Dawn


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